女权主义者的性欲观(读书笔记:杰茜卡瓦伦蒂:《正面全裸的女权主义》)小编一贯感到,女权主义者都是些身穿男子西装剪着夫君发型叼着烟卷不刮腋毛的中性人,直到读了瓦伦蒂那本《正面全裸的女权主义》。今后才清楚过来,原本女权主义者也有七情六欲的!不仅仅如此,她们的欲念比普通女人越来越直接,越来越强势,更自私。瓦伦蒂用了任何三个章节来论述女权主义的性欲观。标题是《女权主义者越来越长于干那件事(以致任何关于性的晋升)FEMINISTS
DO IT BETTEQX56 (AND OTHEQX56 SEX
TIPS)》。她直抒胸意就自身炫目“小编在床的上面比你行,而那得归功于女权主义。”(I’m
better in bed than you are. And I have feminism to thank for
it.)今世男权社会对女人有意气风发种自相反感的双重标准:一方面,女孩子在青天白日担当“守贞教育”,早晨则在电视上观看“女孩也疯狂”的广告。一方面,女孩被指导说婚前性行为是尴尬的,另一面又告诉您,你若想形成一名春假辣妹,你赶紧对着镜头宽衣解带吧!(When
you’re getting abstinence-only education during the day and Girls Gone
Wild commercials at night, it’s not exactly easy to develop a healthy
sexuality. You’re taught that sex before marriage is bad bad bad, but
that if you want to be a springbreak hottie, you’d better start making
out for the
camera.)守贞文学家是这么来教育女人的:“你们的身子就是生机勃勃根棒棒糖。当你们与恋人发生性关系时,他剥去你的伪装,含吮起来。那个时候恐怕感到对的,可缺憾的是,他与你完事后,你们留给下一个人伴侣的便是衣冠不整,口水臭味的流毒。”(“Your
body is a wrapped lollipop. When you have sex with a man, he unwraps
your lollipop and sucks on it. It may feel great at the time, but
unfortunately, when he’s done with you, all you have left for your next
partner is a poorly wrapped, saliva-fouled sucker.
“)够耸人听新闻说的。不过女权主义者不吃那生机勃勃套。瓦伦蒂提议的口号是:“作者的处女膜笔者做主!(Our
Hymens, Ourselves
)”她说:“笔者未有闹精通处女贞操有啥样大不断,真的。小编的贞节在中学时期就被一名男盆友没怎么费事就夺去了。大家后来还约会了一点年啊。小编还感到会有哪些非常疼感呢,未有。小编总感到这种把处女贞操当成出水水华贰次事很蠢笨。所以您能够想像,当作者发掘本身原本是被用过即弃的杂质时有多愕然。”(I
have never really understood what the big deal was about virginity.
Really. Mine was lost without a great deal of fanfare to a high school
boyfriend whom I dated for several years afterward. I expected to feel
different—I didn’t. The whole precious-flower-virginity thing always
seemed silly to me. So imagine my surprise when I found out that I was
just a used-up piece of trash without
it.)作者相比较纳闷的是,女权主义者总体上是不屑生龙活虎顾匹夫的。但是在管理本身的情欲时,她们对丈夫的无奇不有显著又是另豆蔻梢头番山明水秀。诚然,她们与夫君上床,再亦不是为了讨好相公,更不是为着薪火相传,而纯粹是为了自身的快乐。用瓦伦蒂露骨的话,正是:生龙活虎边做女权主义者,生龙活虎边打炮!(f***ing
while feminist
!)只是,面前遇到一个人性欲如此高涨态度如此强势的女权主义床伴,哪一人小男子消受得起?